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		<title>A Small Business Wants Public Healthcare</title>
		<link>http://fearlessmoney.com/2009/a-small-business-wants-public-healthcare/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 16:56:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I am a small businessman and employer. I&#8217;ve hired various people for jobs as needed, and I work regularly with an excellent designer. But, I&#8217;ve been quite reluctant to take the next step and hire full-time employees. It isn&#8217;t that the payroll is that hard to do. QuickBooks takes care of that for me. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2009/a-small-business-wants-public-healthcare/">A Small Business Wants Public Healthcare</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a small businessman and employer. I&#8217;ve hired various people for jobs as needed, and I work regularly with <a href="http://www.kelvindesign.com/">an excellent designer</a>. But, I&#8217;ve been quite reluctant to take the next step and hire full-time employees. It isn&#8217;t that the payroll is that hard to do. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Intuit-406642-QuickBooks-Pro-2009/dp/B001ECGT8A%3FSubscriptionId%3D0PZ7TM66EXQCXFVTMTR2%26tag%3Dpugseye-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3DB001ECGT8A">QuickBooks</a> takes care of that for me. The problem is that anyone I&#8217;d hire full-time would (rightly) expect that I&#8217;d provide a health insurance option.</p>
<p>I support a strong public healthcare option on extremely pragmatic reasoning, that it would benefit my bottom line, the bottom line of my employees, it would increase flexibility, freedom and responsiveness. Haha, I almost sound like I&#8217;m using &#8220;Randian&#8221; analysis here.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve checked it out. I could get a decent insurance plan through Costco Small Business. But, the simple fact is that it is a huge hassle, and it has nothing to do with my business.</p>
<p>Yes, I could get group insurance once I had a pool of employees. But, it would require that I continue having these employees, since there is a minimum participation level. Also, it would hide benefits I am paying out. If I offer a programmer $40 per hour, that should be what they get For me to offer health insurance will either waste time for me, checking it out, administrating it, paying for part of it, documenting the options to my employees, or it will require me to hire someone else to do that for me. Either way, a waste of time, attention and money. All of that is hidden to my employees, who correctly see what I am paying them as the bottom line.</p>
<p>Employer based healthcare simply limits my options. Why should I care? Because it is traditional in the U.S.? Thanks but I&#8217;ll pass.</p>
<p>I believe that a viable, strong public healthcare option in the U.S. would lead to a huge growth in small business. We would be freed of an onerous, time-consuming, expensive task which has nothing to do with our core competency.</p>
<p>In my opinion as a small businessman, the reforms needed are simple and straightforward:</p>
<p>1) Remove all tax benefits for employer-based health insurance.</p>
<p>2) Remove the right of insurance companies to exclude pre-existing conditions and to exclude people based on &#8220;inaccurate information&#8221; once they contract an expensive disease (called &#8220;excission&#8221;, this is criminal, IMHO).</p>
<p>3) Require all citizens to buy insurance. Subsidize those who are too poor to pay for it.</p>
<p>If we did this, we would radically increase the flexibility of small business, and of the work force to move to the best available position. As it is, many people are simply trapped by the circumstances of their healthcare at a job which has long since ceased to be the right match for them. This benefits no one.</p>
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		<title>Planting seeds of success every day</title>
		<link>http://fearlessmoney.com/2007/planting-seeds-of-success-every-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2007 18:00:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Employment]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Now that I am working full-time in my new interactive web agency, SolidSiteSolutions, I am even more committed to something I first started doing casually about a year ago. That is, I make a discipline of "planting a seed" every day. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2007/planting-seeds-of-success-every-day/">Planting seeds of success every day</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/images/seedling.jpg" alt="seedling Planting seeds of success every day" class="left" title="Planting seeds of success every day" />Now that I am working full-time in my new interactive web agency, <a href="http://solidsitesolutions.com">SolidSiteSolutions</a>, I am even more committed to something I first started doing casually about a year ago.  That is, I make a discipline of &#8220;planting a seed&#8221; every day.</p>
<p>Each day, in my morning planning/emailing time, I do at least one thing which is purely intended to create future business for myself or my company.  I got this idea from Dan Kennedy&#8217;s book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=193253167X%26tag=pugseye-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/193253167X%253FSubscriptionId=02ZH6J1W0649DTNS6002">&#8220;No B.S. Wealth Attraction for Entrepreneurs&#8221;</a>, where he says:</p>
<blockquote><p>It may be a small thing: tearing out a magazine article that should interest one of my clients, scrawling a note on it and mailing it.  It may be answering one item of correspondence, getting one fax sent, identifying a new, potentially useful contact, jotting a note or sending a book.<br />
[...] Most professionals stop selling while they&#8217;re delivering, so they have dry spells, roller coaster ups and downs.  I have had more demand than supply of me and waiting lists of clients for many years because of my daily discipline of doing at least one proactive thing to attract business every single day.</p></blockquote>
<p>For me, I find that this site and <a href="http://coderseye.com">my programming blog</a> are incredible sources of contacts and opportunities.  So, doing a simple blog post like this one definitely counts as my seed for the day.</p>
<p>When I mention my new business venture to peers, many say &#8220;I did that, but I went and got a job after a few months.  I just didn&#8217;t like the roller coaster ride.&#8221;  I believe that this discipline is a key part of avoiding those problems.  It is so tempting to just dive right into the mountain of programming I need to accomplish for my current clients, but it is a mistake.  I plant the seed, and only then dive into the coding, letting the day pass by in pleasurable obsession.</p>
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		<title>Life Without an Employer</title>
		<link>http://fearlessmoney.com/2007/life-without-an-employer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Feb 2007 04:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>With three days on my own now under my belt, I think I am in the perfect position to talk about some of the differences. While employment is still fresh in my mind, everything is still new to me. I&#8217;m having so much fun learning and growing into my new phase of working life.</p> <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2007/life-without-an-employer/">Life Without an Employer</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/images/employees_only.jpg" alt="employees only Life Without an Employer" class="left" title="Life Without an Employer" />With three days on my own now under my belt, I think I am in the perfect position to talk about some of the differences.  While employment is still fresh in my mind, everything is still new to me.  I&#8217;m having so much fun learning and growing into my new phase of working life.</p>
<p>One observation which is a bit different than expected is just how many people are out and about during the day.  When I was working, I guess it was just natural for me to think that &#8220;everyone works during the day&#8221;.  Now, I&#8217;m noticing that this is just not true.  I attended a kickboxing class on Friday at 9:30am, full. I tried going to Costco at noon, and it was just as busy as it is on a Saturday afternoon.</p>
<p>Another observation is just how much time there actually is in a day.  Cutting out the hour commute to Dotster sure adds a lot of productive time to my day.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also quite pleased at how much better I am at my daily &#8220;contact&#8221; tasks.  Call this person, email that one.  I set aside a time every morning to take care of those tasks and then I do it.  No coworkers come by to chat, no &#8220;fires&#8221; start burning out of control, and I get things done.  Amazing and so satisfying.</p>
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		<title>I&#039;ve Resigned!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jan 2007 21:29:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve resigned my job. The Universe truly is a benevolent place.</p> <p>This is the first time in my life I&#8217;ve quit one job without having another fulltime one lined up to replace it. It is truly a leap of faith for me to go 100% on my own.</p> The Universe hasn&#8217;t let me down <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2007/ive-resigned/">I&#039;ve Resigned!</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/images/jump_joy.jpg" alt="jump joy I&#039;ve Resigned!" class="right" title="I&#039;ve Resigned!" />I&#8217;ve resigned my job.  The Universe truly is a benevolent place.</p>
<p>This is the first time in my life I&#8217;ve quit one job without having another fulltime one lined up to replace it.  It is truly a leap of faith for me to go 100% on my own.</p>
<h3>The Universe hasn&#8217;t let me down</h3>
<p>Contract jobs and opportunities are lined up to the point where I can pick and choose.  I literally could not do all the work offered to me, were I to accept it.  I&#8217;m not saying this to brag, although I am proud of it, but because it is validating a belief I&#8217;ve been building for some time.  Take a committed step, and the Universe will arrange itself to fulfill your needs.</p>
<p>I have two more days to finish up at work and then I will be working from home full time.  I am so eager to get going, and to regain some family time.  You see, that&#8217;s how I knew I was ready to transition from employee to consultant, when I&#8217;d made more consulting in my off-hours than from my job.  I needed to do it, to make sure I enjoyed the work and to build my portfolio, but the toll on my family life was more than I want to bear in the long term.  I just can&#8217;t take 20-30 hours a week away from my family and stay happy for long.</p>
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		<title>Proud to be interested</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Nov 2006 06:34:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day, I was reading Loral Langemeier's new book "The Millionaire Maker's Guide to Wealth Cycle Investing" as I was getting off the elevator at work. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/proud-to-be-interested/">Proud to be interested</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/images/book_pile2.jpg" alt="book pile2 Proud to be interested" class="left" title="Proud to be interested" />The other day, I was reading Loral Langemeier&#8217;s new book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=0071478728%26tag=pugseye-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/0071478728%253FSubscriptionId=02ZH6J1W0649DTNS6002">&#8220;The Millionaire Maker&#8217;s Guide to Wealth Cycle Investing&#8221;</a> as I was getting off the elevator at work.  A coworker asked what I was reading.  I told him, and mentioned that I was learning quite a bit from it.  He actually snickered.</p>
<p>Now, snickering never feels nice, but in this case it made me really think about what caused that reaction, and to a certain degree how my financial growth is distancing me from many of my coworkers.</p>
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<p>In fact, I used to hide my reading of books like that from coworkers and bosses.  I felt like I was putting on airs or something.  Like I would never be wealthy anyway, and that reading these books was akin to &#8220;get rich scheming&#8221;, that bugaboo label of poor people everywhere.  That was before I really began my mental shift from wage earner to entrepreneur.  From paycheck-to-paycheck to actual financial planning.</p>
<p>These days, I read tons about wealth and moneymaking.  I listen to business audiobooks almost every day on my 90 minute commute.  I don&#8217;t hide the books anymore, and I am finding a very interesting reaction.</p>
<h3>Reactions</h3>
<p>My coworkers are almost universally dismissive.  At least my peers are.  This is strange to me, since these are professionals making decent corporate money.  I don&#8217;t know their salaries, but I&#8217;d be shocked if some weren&#8217;t in the low six figures, and most are probably in the $75-90K range.  They are definitely making enough that they could be investing and taking an interest in investment.  But they don&#8217;t, or most don&#8217;t anyway.</p>
<p>However, those above me in the corporate food-chain are interested.  Actually, I think it makes them more interested in me.  For example, I like the Financial Times newspaper, and it is often sitting on my desk.  I think it is interesting that the most successful salesperson in the company made a point of talking with me about how much he likes that paper too.  My boss has made a point of talking with me about some of the tactics I&#8217;ve learned from such books as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=0965175081%26tag=pugseye-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/0965175081%253FSubscriptionId=02ZH6J1W0649DTNS6002">&#8220;The Single Best Investment: Consistently Creating Wealth with Dividend Growth&#8221; (Lowell Miller)</a> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=0131721291%26tag=pugseye-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/0131721291%253FSubscriptionId=02ZH6J1W0649DTNS6002">&#8220;Opportunity Investing: How To Profit When Stocks Advance, Stocks Decline, Inflation Runs Rampant, Prices Fall, Oil Prices Hit the Roof, &#8230; and Every Time in Between&#8221; (Gerald Appel)</a>.</p>
<h3>An Observation</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve read many times that you can predict how much money a person makes by observing his friends.  Generally, people make within 10% of their friends.  I think this is part of how that happens.  Subtle social disapproval and enforcement of the norms.
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		<title>On workplace &quot;heroes&quot;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Sep 2006 03:24:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the last couple years, I've slowly come to an interesting realization about work, and certain types of people at work. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/on-workplace-heroes/">On workplace &#34;heroes&#34;</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="../wp-content/themes/images/medal.jpg" alt="medal On workplace &quot;heroes&quot;" class="alignleft" title="On workplace &quot;heroes&quot;" />In the last couple years, I&#8217;ve slowly come to an interesting realization about work, and certain types of people at work.  Basically, that being a &#8220;hero&#8221; gets me nowhere, and letting other people be &#8220;the hero&#8221; is a wise thing to do.</p>
<p>I work in &#8220;the internet field&#8221;, for one of the largest domain name registrars in the world.  I&#8217;ve pretty much always worked in a similar environment, one where IT and development were a huge part of the company.  I now see that each one of them  had this one thing in common, the presence of self-proclaimed heroes in these departments.</p>
<p>These are the people who will pull all-nighters to bring in the project on time, or to bring the servers back up after a disaster.  Usually men, at least in my experience, they are the ones who know everything in their domain, and they&#8217;ve made themselves absolutely indispensable.</p>
<p>Probably this is not unique to IT/Development, I&#8217;d be surprised if it was.</p>
<p>I love these people, I admire these people, and I used to be one of these people.  I was the guru, the self-proclaimed master who was too busy to extricate himself from the work to bother documenting what I was doing.  I was the unsubtle gatherer of what I thought was job security.  But I&#8217;m not one anymore.  I&#8217;m still knowledgeable, and I still work overtime occasionally.  But I no longer make a point of volunteering and martyring myself for doing so.  Instead, I&#8217;ve passed that torch.</p>
<p>I have noticed a couple things since dropping the hero persona.  One is that I don&#8217;t really receive any less rewards or appreciation, possibly I receive more.  Another observation, somewhat surprising initially, is that someone else always appears to play the hero role.  I make a point of letting them do so.  They love it, and I appreciate their work.  My family also appreciates me working fewer hours.</p>
<p>In fact, I now believe that this is the natural order of things in companies like mine.  I hope it doesn&#8217;t sound too cynical, since I think of it as a positive, maturing process.  The young people learn a lot in their self-imposed trial-by-fire.  Hopefully they will eventually mature, realizing that they are walling themselves into their positions.  You can&#8217;t simultaneously be absolutely indispensable and get a promotion.  The company needs the &#8220;heroes&#8221; where they are.</p>
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		<title>Focusing on the goal</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jul 2006 23:40:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Why am I working at my job? What am I getting out of it? Asking myself these questions and coming to a firm conclusion has made a night and day turnaround in my attitude.</p> The Turning Point <p>On Monday this week (being late to work), I was picking up a bunk-bed for my girls. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/focusing-on-the-goal/">Focusing on the goal</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/wp-content/themes/images/lens.jpg" alt="lens Focusing on the goal" class="alignleft" title="Focusing on the goal" />Why am I working at my job?  What am I getting out of it?  Asking myself these questions and coming to a firm conclusion has made a night and day turnaround in my attitude.</p>
<h4>The Turning Point</h4>
<p>On Monday this week (being late to work), I was picking up a bunk-bed for my girls.  A good friend of mine was letting me use his truck, and had tagged along to help load up the bed.</p>
<p>He asked the simple question &#8220;how do you like your new job?&#8221;, and I found myself responding at long-rambling-length.  I was partially thinking out loud, but mostly what I was doing was half rationalizing, half realizing that I wasn&#8217;t very happy at all.  When I trailed off, he responded, showing me the he really saw to the heart of the matter.</p>
<p>Being a gentleman, he didn&#8217;t hit me with the point, he simply told me how it is for him.</p>
<blockquote><p>I understand, the way I think about my job is that I realize that I make a lot of money at it, and that I need that money to pay for my real passion, real-estate investment.  Whenever I get depressed, or when they lay on the pressure, I just think about my real goal, and the tension goes away.</p></blockquote>
<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking about that statement ever since.  Monday evening, I talked it out with my sweetie and came to the conclusion that I hadn&#8217;t really been clear with myself about what I want from the job.</p>
<h4>No focus = No fulfillment</h4>
<p>Naturally I wasn&#8217;t feeling fulfilled.  For me, no goal = no fulfillment on the job.  Without a goal,  I had was a reverted to previous behavior and expectations.  I&#8217;d whine to myself about the fact that I don&#8217;t get to program very often, usually less than ten hours a week.  More of my time is spent problem solving, facilitating, information gathering, planning and discussing.  From a straight &#8220;developer mindset&#8221;, all that stuff is at best a diversion from &#8220;my work.&#8221;</p>
<p>But, the truth is that I&#8217;m already a very experienced and skilled developer.  I don&#8217;t really need any more skill development in that area, since that isn&#8217;t going to be my career for much longer.  It has too low an income ceiling for me to want to pursue it any farther.</p>
<h4>New focus</h4>
<p>As my entries on the blog over the last few months show, I&#8217;ve been bitten hard by the entrepreneurial bug.  So what I need is experience with project management, leadership, ownership of goals, and interfacing with non-technical people.  I&#8217;m &#8220;OK&#8221; at these things now, but I have a huge amount to learn.  The very stuff that I used to deride as &#8220;not work&#8221; has become what I feel I need to learn in order to be a success in my career change.</p>
<p>Focus, decisions.  My goal at work is to make a reasonable living while learning everything I can in the areas I most want to grow.  Anything else is off-topic and off-focus.</p>
<p>My attitude flipped overnight.  In just a couple days, I&#8217;m now reinvigorated at work, I know what I should be working on, and I am clear with my boss about my priorities.</p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t &#8220;fake it until I made it&#8221; either.  I was trying, it wasn&#8217;t working, and I just felt like a phony.  I needed to have a goal I can honestly, wholeheartedly pursue, or I was simply going to have a miserable experience.</p>
<h4>Immediate Results</h4>
<p>I think it is quite fitting that after a couple days of planning and priority setting with my boss, he&#8217;s sending me off to a convention he&#8217;d been planning to attend (<a href="http://www.hostingcon.com">HostingCon</a>).  I&#8217;ll learn a lot there, and it clearly fits within my new focus, so I&#8217;m getting excited by the prospect.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m certain if I&#8217;d had the black clouds over my head that I&#8217;d been dragging around since my vacation, I would not have been asked to be my employer&#8217;s representative.  Funny how things happen at just the right time.</p>
<p>Thanks R, for the truck loan and the advice.<br /><p>Technorati Tags: <a href="http://technorati.com/tagjob+focus" rel="tag">job focus</a>, <a href="http://technorati.com/tagmotivation" rel="tag"> motivation</a></p>

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		<title>Accepted a job at Dotster</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2006 20:19:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Yay! I&#8217;ve accepted a new job at Dotster.com. This means I won&#8217;t have any period of unemployment at all.</p> <p>In fact, with severance and PTO payout, this is turning into a windfall month. There goes another chunk of debt for me.</p> <p>This was the most interesting jobsearch in ages, since I&#8217;m a lot more <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/accepted-a-job-at-dotster/">Accepted a job at Dotster</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/wp-content/themes/images/handshake.jpg" class="alignleft" alt="handshake Accepted a job at Dotster"  title="Accepted a job at Dotster" />Yay!  I&#8217;ve accepted a new job at <a href="http://dotster.com">Dotster.com</a>.  This means I won&#8217;t have any period of unemployment at all.</p>
<p>In fact, with severance and PTO payout, this is turning into a windfall month.  There goes another chunk of debt for me.</p>
<p>This was the most interesting jobsearch in ages, since I&#8217;m a lot more mature and confident than I used to be.  Not only that, but I have enough emergency funding set aside that I didn&#8217;t have to take the first minimally-acceptable job that came along.  As a result, I was a lot more honest and forthright in interviews this time.</p>
<p>The honesty blew my streak, which was that until now I&#8217;d never failed to be offered a job I&#8217;d for which I&#8217;d interviewed.  I blew one interview, for a job I could have done but didn&#8217;t really have extensive background experience in (R&amp;D).  I did get three out of four job-offers though, which is not bad.  Besides, I think it is something I needed to break.  Much like you can&#8217;t really be a good rock-climber without taking a few falls, I think you can&#8217;t really find the right next career step without risking some &#8220;stretch&#8221; interviews.</p>
<p>For what it&#8217;s worth, the job came through contacts and references.  Not a recruiter or a posting.  Just like &#8220;they&#8221; say, that&#8217;s where the good jobs are mostly found.</p>
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		<title>Deciding between job offers</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Apr 2006 06:50:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A quick and happy update to my lay-off status. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/deciding-between-job-offers/">Deciding between job offers</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/wp-content/themes/images/road.jpg" alt="road Deciding between job offers" class="alignleft" title="Deciding between job offers" />A quick and happy update to my lay-off status.  As I <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/yup-layoff-is-official/" title="Yup, layoff is official">mentioned before</a>, I got laid-off a few weeks ago.  I&#8217;m still working until May 1, and they are being very nice about us taking time off to interview.  I&#8217;ve gone on two interviews, and I&#8217;ve gotten three job offers.</p>
<h4>OK, 2.5 offers</h4>
<p>Well, not really three.  I have two formal and one informal offer.  The nice thing is that the lowest paid of them is still more than a $5,000 raise.  Yay!  I&#8217;m definitely ruling out the one at the big, faceless, behemoth company.  It was &#8220;plan C&#8221; for me.  Now, I need to choose between the one formal and the other informal offer.  The informal offer is for more money at a more established place.  I would be making six figures there, for the first time in a couple years.  The other is for less money at a startup, but includes a load of stock options, is closer, has more interesting technology.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got a lot of thinking to do this weekend, and I&#8217;ve got to see if that informal offer can get more formal in the next very few days.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so grateful and happy that I am in the position of choosing between offers.  I won&#8217;t have to dip into emergency funds, and with my severance pay, I&#8217;ll actually have a small windfall.  I&#8217;m amazed at how calmly and matter-of-factly I&#8217;ve taken the whole job hunt this time.  I wasn&#8217;t even worried 95% of the time.  That&#8217;s progress!  That&#8217;s me living up to the name of this blog.</p>
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		<title>Getting paid what I&#039;m worth</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Mar 2006 05:55:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Bruce Kroeze</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Despite my hopeful post a couple weeks ago, I'm pretty sure I'll have to get another day job. Darn.One thing that's been bothering me about the jobhunt is how readily and how early people ask about my &#34;rate&#34;. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/getting-paid-what-im-worth/">Getting paid what I&#039;m worth</a></span>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="/wp-content/themes/images/coins.jpg" class="alignleft" title="Getting paid what I&#039;m worth" alt="coins Getting paid what I&#039;m worth" />Despite <a href="http://fearlessmoney.com/2006/maybe-hittin-the-road/" title="Maybe hittin&#039; the road">my hopeful post</a> a couple weeks ago, I&#8217;m pretty sure I&#8217;ll have to get another day job.  Darn.</p>
<p>One thing that&#8217;s been bothering me about the job hunt is how readily and how early people ask about my &quot;rate&quot;.  I hate answering that question, and I&#8217;m starting to think I should refuse until a later stage of the interview.  The truth is, I have a cutoff number, below which I seriously cannot go without entering a downward financial spiral.</p>
<p>Everything above that is negotiable depending on how much I like the job, its security, the people involved, and the potential for advancement.  None of that nuance is communicated by the flat &quot;what&#8217;s your rate?&quot;.  Writing this out makes me realize I need to be firmer and simply refuse the question until I know enough to negotiate properly.</p>
<p>From now on, the only time I&#8217;ll answer it is if it is going to be a &quot;1099 contract&quot;, when I&#8217;ll say $65-70/hour.  If I have to hassle around, pay quarterly taxes and get my own insurance, someone&#8217;s gonna pay for that.  I suppose I could do it through my new LLC though.  That&#8217;s a useful thing about having a company of your own that I hadn&#8217;t considered.  Hmm.</p>
<h4>Inspiration</h4>
<p>Last week, I read <a href="http://www.marketingheadhunter.com/executive_search/2006/03/compensation.html">an inspiring and thoughtful article</a> about how to negotiate for a better salary.  I&#8217;m still trying to apply it to my own circumstances.  I think I simply need to claim my own considerable strength and really go for the wage I deserve.  If that means way more responsibility than I&#8217;m used to, so be it, if that means I have a written, negotiated performance incentive, so be it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.marketingheadhunter.com/executive_search/2006/02/negotiating.html">Another article</a> from the same site gets more directly to the point with this advice:</p>
<blockquote><p>Here&#8217;s an E-Z way to make more money the next time you change jobs:  Do NOT tell the HR department or hiring manager of the company with which you&#8217;re interviewing how much you make in your present job.  Trust me, they&#8217;ll always ask &#8220;How much are you making now?&#8221;  Do NOT tell them!  They&#8217;ll look irritated and ask again, as if you might not have understood their question.  But simply stick to your guns and politely say &#8220;Until we reach an agreement, I&#8217;d prefer to keep my W-2 figures private.  I understand that the salary range for this job is $___, and that is acceptable for me.&#8221;  End of story.</p></blockquote>
<p>OK!  I&#8217;m sold on the strategy, now I just need a job.</p>
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